How do you choose your friends? What qualities do you look for in a friend?
People use the word “friend” in a variety of ways. A friend can mean anything from a casual acquaintance to someone you’ve known your whole life. Whoever they are, friends are an important part of life at every stage. They provide companionship and emotional support. Of all our relationship, friendships are the most voluntary. We choose our friends.
Making new friends
It’s easy to stay in the circle of friends you’re comfortable with. But as you get older, friendships may be lost – people move away or you just lose track of them. Building friendships is a lifelong but worthwhile, job. New friendships can bring opportunities to experience new things.
A few pointers for making new friends :
· Reach out to others. Try to be open to new experiences and relationships
· Participate in classes, clubs or volunteer organizations. These activities will bring you into contact with people who share similar interests.
· Stick with it – even if you feel uncomfortable. It takes time to built friendships.
Keeping friends
Whether friendships are old or new, you can’t neglect them if you want them to last. Even though it’s sometimes hard to spend time together, it’s important to keep in touch. Two other keys are flexibility and respect. Be understanding when plans change. If you find yourselves fighting, try to look at things from the other person’s point of view.
Some tips for keeping friends :
· Be a good listener. Don’t be judge mental and don’t offer advice unless you’re asked.
· Respect the other person’s opinion, even when you don’t agree.
· Never break a confidence. Your friends need to know they can trust you .
· Be supportive of your friends. It’s important to love them despite their faults!